Must Haves: Do not pass GO, do not collect $200 until you have secured these items for your first weeks home with your baby. Trust me, you will be glad you did!
- Maxi Pads - Get the big ones, baby. If you deliver "the old fashioned way," you will be bleeding for a while.....longer than you might think. Save yourself the hassle and just have these ready to go. While you're at it, buy some TUCKS to lay on top of your maxi pads. You and your hemorrhoids will thank me.
- Boppy Pillow - If you are planning to breastfeed, this pillow is an absolute essential. It positions the baby perfectly for ideal access to the girls. When it's 3 am and you're needing to feed the baby while you can barely remember your name, this is a life saver. Just lay the kids down, pop 'em on the old milk machine, and doze off for a little while. It might just be the best chance you get to sleep! Oh, and don't forget to score an extra cover for your Boppy. After you've dozed off while nursing and you wake up to a big wet spot where you've dribbled all over your nursing pillow, you'll appreciate having an extra cover handy. (P.S. This pillow is awesome for bottle feeding too!!)
- Nursing Pads - The nursing mom simply cannot live without these. Once that milk comes in, you had better make sure you've got these on hand and ready to go. Check them and change them often and make sure to adjust their position before you try to go to sleep or you will soak through your shirts quicker than you can say "Lactate!" Buy a TON of these! I literally went through a box of 60 in my first 2 weeks postpartum! (P.S. If you are NOT nursing, you might want to grab a box of these anyway to use when your milk comes in. Engorgement can lead to leaking and you'll want to use these to protect your clothes.) I love the Lansinoh brand. They're soft, discreet, and they can absorb a lot of breastmilk.
- Mylicon Gas Drops - I made the mistake of only buying one of these the last time I was at Target. My boys both have had issues with getting really gassy after feedings and they will grunt and scream like crazy until I give them this stuff. Safe enough to use at every feeding, I can't imagine life without it. Be sure to get the dye-free variety. The pink stuff stains!
- Coffee - I think this explains itself.
Skip It: Sure, these things may sound nice, but they are hardly essential to your transition into Mommyhood. Save your money for more diapers, wipes, and Mylicon.
- Wipe Warmer - I know some people swear by these, but I just don't get it. Perhaps the tendency of our generation to coddle our children begins with this ridiculous contraption. Just use the cold wipe out of the box. Their little butt will survive, I promise.
- Nursing Pajamas - I seriously thought about getting some sleepwear specifically designed for nursing. After I soaked breastmilk through my third tank top in one night, I realized that would have been completely futile. Just throw on some loose-fitting comfy clothes and you'll be just fine.
That's all I've got for right now. Any of my other mommies out there care to add to this list? What are your favorite essentials for the new mom?
Hooter Hider if you are nursing!!! Makes it so much easier when people come to visit in those first few weeks and is great when you are out and about as they get older. You don't have to find a private spot but rather just a place to sit.
ReplyDeleteI'll second that! I have certainly enjoyed using the one you sent, Marissa. Thanks again!i
ReplyDeleteI LOVE to give advise but can barely remember Evan and Ashley being babies so my advise might not be very helpful. I'll give some unsolicited pointers when the boys are older. :-)
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ReplyDelete1 - a good nightlight or dimming light 2 - Miracle blanket swaddler was a godsend for me 3 - TiVo for those 3am - 6am wakings. Most tv I got to watch for a while even if I was comatosed :) 4 - rechargeable batteries have saved us numerous $$$ and trips to the store 5 - heating pad for sore shoulders, neck, back, etc... 6 - JJCole bunting sac for the carseat works great cause you don't have to put on and take off a coat on a newborn in the middle of winter 7 - the infant sleeper/sac/dress with just elastic opening at the bottom make nighttime changes a breeze 8 - Vicks baby vapor rub for congested babies and/or humidifier 9 - large water bottles and a filter for a dehydrated mommy to drink while sitting and nursing for 45 min at at time
I 2nd the boppy. You aren't supposed to use it when they sleep but when you have a stuffed up sick baby the incline works like a charm.
Wow, that was a lot! I'll shut up now.
The nightlight is a definite must. I had to go to Target to get one for Micah's room because I forgot about it until it was after he had come home. I got a cute polar bear one though!
ReplyDeleteMiracle blanket? Might need to check into that b/c Micah LOVES being swaddled. His brother hated it!
I will confess, I let Micah sleep on the Boppy when we stayed overnight at the in laws last week because he was just going to sleep in the P&P and it was WONDERFUL!! The incline helped with the gas he tends to get overnight and that was his best night of sleep ever!